I was very close to my dad as was also my sister. Fortunately, we have each other to lean on as well as our mom, and a lot of extended family who loved my dad.
At the moment, I'm not making any decisions to end the M but I don't have the will to keep working on it. H brought up seeing a lawyer together to do things "amicably". But I told him he would have to be the one to do that because I was never the one that wanted out of the M. Afterall, he is the one who is "miserable" in this M. If he wants a D, he will have to take the necessary steps to file.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz