I really think that since OM is gone that you will start to see some positive behavior from your W. Just wished she would still see a doctor.
Anyway, let's hope & pray that OM will not stay in contact via email, etc.
Once I actually broke contact from my OM, I was so depressed b/c I felt like I was stuck in a M with a man who I didn't think I would ever feel any passion for. In some ways, I felt like I was making a sacrifice for my family......and just doing the right thing, but not b/c that was what I "wanted". It was so horrible.
Once the fog started lifting where I could think again, and "see" the truth......it scared me to death.But all of it was very gradual......the remorse and the reality of what I did....and "could have done" if I had not broke it off with OM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
