Woops.. I wrote my last post before I saw that you confirmed the affair. I am sorry for you. I know it hurts.
We do now have the correct diagnosis though. Now you can treat this with the correct medication.
For now, take this all in and try to seek balance from this initial shock. Please don't contact her while you are in this frame of mind. Others will pick you up on this site. Do nothing for the time being.
