Maybe I came across as wrong, that is not what I meant......but wouldnt moving there have more chances of running into his wife with the o/m???? not the children, that would be the best thing to happen, I am more concerned with any physical confrontations with the o/m....sorry if I misled anyone especially you CMNM....sorry geezz!! you know when and if the time comes and he sees her with him it will not be a pretty sight......at least for a while.....till he heals a little more....thats all i meant...
