The other thing I need to ask is, should I then ask the painful question next saturday?
"Is there someone else?"

Should I then assume there is already? Isn't one of the principles of DR "Act as if" ?

Again, just looking for answers, not defending my point of view.

Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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