I may see if the woman would like the zoo instead of lunch and a movie, but I don't know if it's too soon for girls to have Dad with someone else, and I'm not sure I'M wanting a group thing vs. a date. I need some date time.
I agree, it's way too soon for the kids. They are having to deal with enough as it is. Just knowing you are seeing another woman is enough for now.
I know it seems "unfair" that your W is having sex and you (as you said) have to be good. But try to think of it as your choice.....not a "have to". Nothing gets by God (bad or good) unnoticed.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
