This quotation feels a propos:

"Unless a tree has borne blossoms in spring, you will vainly look for fruit on it in autumn."
-- Hare Charles


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp
.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.