I have never posted to you.....sorry you find yourself in here.....I have read some of your story but I dont understand why move to where they are....you have just spent the last 9 yrs. to be a heart surgeon and you want to move to be closer to the kids, and that is fine but are you for sure it is not more for her????
Will you be able to handle to see her with him??? and if you do I read where you posted you wanted to kick his butt.....and I am sure that might happen,what will the children think of this? and you know it will get you in jail...is he worth it???
Just wondering what moving there would accomplish, other than seeing the boys more,that would be nice but I think it is a bad idea. I remember me wanting to move to be closer to my husband in my mind I was thingking if I we moved closer, we could reconnect somehow....
you are so new to this I really wonder if you are thinking this thing thru.....imho I know you want it to work out like this, to reconnect, but dont forget this is MLC and it is a very long journey if I have learned anything from this it is that ONE thing.....it is a long long journey and we cant make them change. How they they think.....or fix them....we cant do anything but work on ourselves.....
And they have said here time and time again how can they miss you if you are always there???
This is her journey and if you interfere with it it may never bring her to the end of it.....just my thoughts.....be blessed and let go and let god..
