Her trip is probably another crucial time. She will have lots of time to think about things. The last two and half days, she is on her own without family, just vacationing at the beach.
You do know that this is a HUGE red flag of a rendevous with the OM don't you? You do know this is textbook action of a WAW? They say they are going to visit friends or family. Of course this is always alone. (yea right)
You do know that 2-1/2 days at the beach alone is textbook of what affair partners tell their spouses don't you?
You do know that JUST before they leave to see "their family and alone days on the beach" that they are nice to you don't you? (guilt because they know what they are doing behind your back)
Please don't be naive here. This has every indication of a meeting with the OM. I would bet that he "just happens" to have a trip planned for an alone day or two on the beach, that he has told his wife about. Or some other cockamamie story. They went underground with their relationship because they KNOW that you are looking everywhere for clues. Don't for one second think that they aren't trying to stay one step ahead of you. Might not be a bad time to contact his wife. Trust but VERIFY.
