btw, I had to change my name due to privacy. Not mine, hers.
A few more notes:
The only reason I was considering giving her the book was a good idea is because Michele takes a really objective look in the first 2 chapters. She explains with stats, talks about the WAW, well meaning friends and relationship IQ.
I have some hope that the intelligent woman I fell in love with, would be interested in finding out what's exactly happening to us, opening the possibility that this might be a phase, etc.
The least we deserve is to make an informed decision. If any of us had pain in one of our arms, you wouldn't say, ok it's being hurting for too long now, I'm just going to chop it off. You'd find a doctor and listen to him first, wouldn't you?
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *