New Year... New Life!

[sandycay]

Hey Kerry~ Thanks for the topic for my big paper. I ended up 250 points out of 250 points for the paper. Those barista's!

Anyway, weird and sad stuff (for the kids) here. STBXH did take the kids all weekend last weekend. The kids were miserable.

He dropped them off on Sunday afternoon and hasn't spoken to them since.

Although, during one of our conversations this week due to his difficulty understanding the D process he told me he was leaving on April 20 for a month. So, he wants to see the kids as much as possible but he's not availble Sat. night. OK?

Well, interestingly enough were the kids and I live you have to pay a toll to cross a bridge and our cars are still attached to the same account. I accessed the account and don't you know that man has been over that bridge 8 times late at night in the past 10 days and not been in touch with his kids. This is the same donkey that b!tches about the toll to his kids everytime he sees them. Or uses the excuse to not get them because God forbid they have activities over here and he has to bring them back and forth.

He has been riding their @sses for months over this issue. I am p!ssed off. I told him to not say another word about that bridge toll. He doesn't know I know that he is over here. I have put 2 and 2 together. From what my D told me about someone he was texting... she snooped because he was being secretive and told me the ladies name and that D thought he worked with her.

Well the name matches a lady (she used to be married/no kids) that does live here in the Harbor and they do work together.... duh! I guess some things are worth crossing the bridge for!

So skip to last night, I am bring S home from swim practice at 9 and there is his Dads car sitting up our street at a neighbors house. Now, you would think that A)he knows we would driveby
B) he could have offered to go pick up son so he could atleast seee him

Well, S is seriously p.o. and he says let me know when the D is final because I am going to have a long conversation with him and tell him I don't want to see him till he can change is negative thinking. The kids know their dad has been coming over the bridge and not seeing them and after the riding they have been getting from him... I told them to not listen to it anymore.

I am documenting all this for "who knows what" but honestly ~ these kids have activities 7 days a week~ I am in school full time, and I have this big old house to care for.

So, I spent the last two days off packing up all his stuff, becuase he thinks he should be able to "store" his stuff here. "You, can just put it in the attic, it doesn't cost you anything to do that and I can't afford a rental room to store it" No way Buddy, I want a complete exorcism from your crap. I am packing it up nicely and will have it finished before the D is final/.... hopefully next week and then call him and have him come pick it up. Along, with the boat that is taking up my 3rd garage space. Geesh, he thinks he should be able to store the boat here because he wants to keep it and use it during the summer. LMAO Yes, the MLC jerk is owner of not 1 but 2 boats.

I couldn't sleep last night because his proximity to my house was very unnerving as was on Tuesday when he called to pick up paper work and we were arranging for a time to meet. I said I coudl meet him later and he said "can't you bring it outside?" Freaked me out..... he was in the driveway. Thus ending the streak ~ I hadn't seen him since mid January. Bliss when he is not here!

The friends house he was at .... FFG and I were at on Sat night at a party. I also got the chance to introduce FFG to his boss. He lives in the 'hood too!