8 weeks until D Day!!

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Apologies in advance for a long post. So after the response from H’s email he sent a text saying that I shouldn’t buy him a birthday gift, it had been sorted. I knew what this meant as my sons told me that OW had taken them shopping a book him a book from them. Of course, this really upset me as this is so inappropriate and spiteful.

I responded (paraphrasing) : Any gifts for you from my sons will be bought by me with them. This is still confusing for them and unfair to put them in that position. We need to do what is best for the boys.

H: Total rubbish.

H: You didn’t mind taking the mothers day gifts from them that she bought for you.
(I had my suspicions about this, but didn’t want to upset me sons so took them and we all ate the chocolates. I didn’t respond to H’s texts)

H: They made you the lovely mothers day cards with all of OW stuf......

I could see this was a dig so I responded:

Thanks very much they are lovely.

H: It took you long enough to say thank you.

Me: Please leave me alone. I am having a lovely day spending it with my sons.

H: With pleasure, they are OUR sons................

Oh the war of words!!!