I have told my wife that I would do any job if it meant that I could be up there with them, be a dad, be a husband....probably not the right thing to say...
she did not necessarily go up there for her dream or her work... so if that is the case did it really make sense for me to give up my work as well...that's kindof been the dilemma. not necessarily choosing work over the kids. I wouldn't do that.
its a moot point now though... I'm heading up there. I will be able to see my kids much more and be in their lives. that is the main thing.
