OP - Just planned on asking if he still intended to split it. Nothing else and zero expectations. Just may let it go. He'll need it for his vacation with ow and for the things he'll buy our grandchildren when they stop there so he can introduce her to them. Yeah, that hurts.
Mila - I've been through the resources looking for answers. Some of it fits my H as a MLC. Some of it doesn't. I am very confused and am struggling with knowing how to proceed as my end goal is to try and save my marriage. You do some things different when it's MLC vs WAH. Know one thing for sure, my H is depressed.
