Maybe H isn't in MLC and is a WAH. Maybe I was trying to fit him in that category because I wanted to have an excuse for why he did what he did. It could be that I did that hoping that he would wake up someday and realize all that he's thrown away, including the kids. Maybe I was trying to use him being in MLC to defend myself or to try to ease my guilt because I can't understand why after 27 years, 7 kids, a home we loved, that the love I thought we had for each other just disappeared almost overnight for him. (If his love for me was gone for as long as he said it had been H deserves an Academy Award) It is a hard thing to face that this person whom I've loved for more than half my life just couldn't stand me anymore and walked. It could be that I wanted to believe MLC so that down the road there might be a chance to build a new R with him.
Wow SA, I have exactly the same thoughts. I could have written this myself.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
