I have a financial question I could use some help with.
When leaving my H told me we would split the income tax 50/50 and his annual bonus check. Income tax has been split. H has had his bonus check for about a week now and hasn't mentioned it to me. Do I ask him if he still intends to split that with me or let it go? I've always thought of that as his money as he has worked like a dog all his life. Usually he would spend at least a portion of it on the house or something we needed or wanted.
I don't need it to get by, but would have used it to retain a L in case of LS and D. (H is still under the impression that we will use the same L) If he doesn't split it I will ask that since this is his decision to D that he pay for my L as part of the settlement.