WAW and the law of attraction

[gutwrenching]

Jav,
First of all breathe. Calm down. I hate to tell you this, but there will be no quick solutions. DO NOT share DR...that is your playbook, don't give it to the other team. I am not a vet but others will chime in. She has her FB support, you get your support here. You are going to need it. Don't give up, have hope, follow the advice, learn from your mistakes, and start preparing yourself now, mentally/emotionally/physically for a long, tough rollercoaster ride.

The experts will need some more information. How were things before, have you or her been unhappy, how has communication been, could there be OM in the mix?

Read about the WAW...it is a short article here at DB and it will be enlightening.

Find Sandi's 30+ rules on how to deal with WAW...this is critical at early stages. You have a chance to not make a bunch of the mistakes most of us have made by coming here early. It will seem counter intuitive...it is...but at this point it has to be your guide and you have to trust those that have gone thru this before you.

Read up on other threads...you will be amazed at the similarities.

It is painful, we are all either in pain or have suffered thru the same thing.

These boards can be your life savers and are great sounding boards.

Time to be strong, figure out and CHANGE what you have done wrong...and it won't happen overnight. Your W didn't decide to leave overnight, even though it might seem that way right now.

There are a ton of great people that will be here for you