Also since my wife sleeps most the time when we are home together I started to make out to do lists and check items off as I go along and I purposely leave the list laying around so she might come cross it. I also make calls to therapist (still looking) and leave the brochures on the counter ect... Is this ok? To leave hints around the house without actually telling her...
That's the way to do it. I wouldnt' flood the place with Brochures beucase in a way it may also remind her that your marriage has problems. She does need to know you're trying, but I can also see how her mind might find a way to beat her up over that.
And yes, this process is not all forward going.. its three steps forward, two, back then three forward, tehn two back again... if you do the arithmetic you will see that you will get there, but its a bumpy ride and you need to be careful.
I have some homework for you, its just two hours of work.
You're gonna watch a movie...
This is something you do on your own time, when yoru wife is not at home.
Bruce Almighty
It was on TV tonight and it just hit me this would be perfect for you.
You may have already seen it. Watch it again.
You are Bruce, his gf Grace is your wife. You'll get it when you see it.
This isnt' somethign to share with your wife, don't even let her know you're watching it... its your homework. You'll know why i reccomended it when you see it.
