How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

Also since my wife sleeps most the time when we are home together I started to make out to do lists and check items off as I go along and I purposely leave the list laying around so she might come cross it. I also make calls to therapist (still looking) and leave the brochures on the counter ect... Is this ok? To leave hints around the house without actually telling her...