I love it - in writing your goals, you realize how many are already achieved.
Then you wrote your AMAZING accomplishments. Like Gno says - carry them with you, post them on the wall as your award! I was one of the ones who supported you in doing that!
Perhaps we should write each others accomplishments as we all recognise the growth each of us has made on this journey.
Rocked a thought came to mind when I started this! At the beginnng of all this I sense you were a shy pansy who was content to hide in the flower bed doing your part unnoticed, now Hun you are the rose at the front of the flower bed still with the other flowers playing your part but comfortably standing out showing your beauty (in the sense of kindness, love, giving and yes you are beautiful too)
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
Rabbit... that is a great idea. I don't think I was shy as much as I was passive and accomodating. And, I think I thought I had healthy self esteem, but in retrospect, not asking for what I needed, standing up for myself showed I didn't.
Thank you for your kind words. :-) You are beautiful too... And so are you H4L!
Oh, and CB... thanks for stopping by, my friend... you can bring your dashing smile by my thread anytime!
I'm so glad you're giving yourself an award . Love your list. Don't forget the glitter!! Too bad my D3 can't help you with that...she's the glitter expert . She's also an expert at enjoying everything about herself...we could all learn a lot from her.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
OK so here is the latest thing rocking my world...
Next week my H will be going on a business trip. The first one since piecing. He will be gone Sunday-Friday (traveling on Good Friday... )
Having a hard time with it. I believe it is truly over with OW. I don't think there will be anything going on. But, I don't feel ready for this. Last time he did one of these was in Sept. and they had a rendevous. Same city too.
So... do I talk about it? Leave it? Act as if?
He knows it is hard for me. When he first told me I couldn't hide my reaction. He has been reassuring.
I find a part of me shutting him out right now... ever since he told me he has to do this trip. I think it is self protection. I know that's not good, but I don't know what else to do.
Ugg... I am unclear. It the trip only him or will business colleagues be also going. Will she be going also?
Can you go with him?
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
. She's also an expert at enjoying everything about herself...we could all learn a lot from her.
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