I have avoided contacting her for quite awhile now. i only call when i have a missed call from her. I only email when she emails back. i initiate no contact with her, and that's very out of norm for me.
When I arrive home we won't be living under the same roof, so that will make it a little easier. She has her space now that I haven't given her in the past.
Married 18 Me 39 W 37 D 15 D 5 Divorce Filed 8 April 2010 Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept