The odd thing is even though she still told me it was over that she was still leaving while we were driving home. My friend overheard her at work talking about what a great thing I did for her and how good it was.
OIN your wife has two voices in her head right now :
1. Stay and give OIN another chance to be a better man. 2. Get out while you can with your sanity in tact.
You are going to hear both voices come out of her, and you are going to watch both voices drive her actions.
The LONG HAUL is to drive away voice #2.. but right NOW she's hearing BOTH, you NEED to understand that.
That second voice is DOUBT creeping in... when commitment is string early in a marriage doubt isn't there, but reality hits hard in marriage eventually and that voice will start SCREAMING if you don't take precautions to DIFFUSE it.
So... don't find it suprising to hear or find out that both voices are coming from her..its perfectly NORMAL right now.
The STRESS she feels is listening to BOTH voices right now, its driving her crazy.
And yes, most of the time she shares the second voice with YOU... becuase being around you brings that voice out in her.
Loving actions without chasing her is what's going to diffuse that voice to a whisper... right now its beating her over the head every day.
OK?
This is NORMAL, its not odd or confusing at all once you understand she has two instincts she's fighting at the moment.
This is also likley the reason for her sleeping so much, those voices are exhausting her.
