Hmmm...is your theme song "I wanna rock with you"?
Keep your eyes on the prize, Rocked.
I read somewhere that to love someone is to truly understand them. Pain , warts and all. Hope you reach that level of deep understanding with your H. M is meant to be such a wonderful thing. An intimate marriage of body, soul and minds. To know and be attuned to another on a fundamental level. It is not all sex and good times nor is it drudgery and bad times. It is a blessing if you get it right. A life long blessing.