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We haven't ml in two months mind you. Without going into too much detail, I let her service me and she said it was her turn and she wanted to.....I said you need some rest if you're going to coach tonight and if you're that horny now, maybe you'll be that horny when you sober up. I don't have any interest in just f****** my wife again.


Maybe I'm not seeing this the way you do, but my suggestion is that next time.....you don't allow her to "service you" first. You had your needs met and then refused her? Did you think you were showing strenth & honor when you said you didn't have any interest in just f****** your W again? Why didn't you stop her BEFORE she serviced you? It just made you look like a selfish, immature jerk to get off and then tell her you didn't want her.

Don't misunderstand me. It nearly turned my stomach to visualize how disgusting she must have appeared, but if she was good enough to ......well, you know.....then she must not have been too disgusting for you to do the rest. You did not "teach" her anything the way you went about it. It was like letting the horse out after the barn burned.



It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!