Wait! What do you mean by, "It does get better when you finally meet someone else"?? Please don't say you define your life by having a significant other. IMHO, you have to be okay with being alone and become a whole person again before even entertaining the idea of being with someone else. I spent several months searching for someone to ease the pain....only to realize that someone had to be me. Are you in the place where you are feeling really good about yourself? How are the kidlets?
Just my opinion....
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10