Welcome. I'm glad for your sake you didn't have kids. It makes the break much easier and cleaner. 40 isn't so bad. I'm breaking down a bit physically from all the years of basketball. But I weigh what I did in college. Running keeps you young.
Being a big softie is a good thing. Someone will love and want to get to the gooie center.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6