H4L, it sounds like you're doing well with breaking the cycle of arguing and provocation!
In recent years H has made some really cutting remarks about our home...I remember every single one and they really hurt because 1. he didn't care for our home and 2. it was OUR home. I feel upset just thinking about it. I wonder if you could respond with "so what's the solution?" when he gets onto complaining?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
