Moving on with my life #2

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He has been wanting to be around alot. Finally when he was here earlier I asked 'what is with the new exh?" He said that he is concentrating on his girls. I said I remember hearing that before but it never lasts. Whatever.

So my pool cover motor flooded during that last huge rain we had and the 'board' (not sure if that is the right term) blew up. I need a new one. I replaced it once before and it was $1000 with labor. The part is about $600. Exh looked at it before the pool people did and said what it was. Exh said if I got the part from the pool people he can install it. So, should I have him do it and save the $400? Or just bite the bullet and pay the pool people? I hate spending that kind of money as it is, but not sure what to do. I hate to be 'owing' him anything, but it sure would be nice to save a few hundred dollars! UGH!