Ouch! Typical defense of herself by trying to make you the sole guilty party. Those convo's never are good. And pretty much anything you say after "I know you are having an affair" is just fuel on the flames.
I can totally relate to "this was enough". However, I doubt she will make it obvious to the kids what is going on like mine did (kissing OM in front of a 7 and 5 year old). Probably more subtle like my mom - and it was only after her affair was exposed that I started to connect the dots, times and places.
