She also mentioned that she is starting to remember more of the positive things from our past. Why would she say this? Chuck feels that she is starting to feel more comfortable around me and can share things with me but some of the things she shares seem to come out of left field and then at the end of the whole 3 hours she is back to talking about splitting up the Christmas ornaments and the photo albums somehow. It's like she is trying to remind me that this IS happening but Chuck said to smile a little on the inside because this is probably her trying to put herself back on course because things felt like she was getting a little confused. Don't know if that is true but it works for me!
Create more positive experiences together. Connect with her on a emotional level. Be confident, steady and aware.
Be prepared for push back once she feels comfortable again. She needs to know you can stand up to her doubts and fears. She wants you to be dependable, solid, in control, strong and wise. She has doubts and needs you to lead. Make sense?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
