It is no stretch to say that there are different opions when it comes to certain issues. Some even have strong propents of their view.
One such topic concerns the affair, and the stance taken.
I consider myself in a group that others would possibly see as non-confrontational...(I'll use the nice word)
However...
Coming across some others pasts, yours included, and re-evaulating mine.
I believe our stances...are not actually all that different. Just (possibly) how we present them.
For instance.
A poster who advises: "Confront now." But who DBed for a while prior to finding out about their spouses affair...had the benefit of DBing, even if they would have confronted their spouse if they had discovered about the affair sooner.
It is currently just an idea in process.
And just laying the bridge work.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
