I'm still in the house. I wouldn't call it WITH my H...but we live in the same house. But as I've said, my H has been incapable of detachment - he's still swimming in the pool of constant mental misery...no change at ALL for years. Too complicated and I might start another thread...not ready yet, tho.
This place depresses me too - and I haven't been able to be here until lately.
I'm pulling for tbart too. I think there should be a whole entire social revolution on what we've been talking about today. The world would be a better place, for sure.