We were having probelms but no, I wouldn't say I was db'ing.

I started AFTER I found out.. I hadn't read MWD until after I found out about her cheating.

If I WAS db'ing and following MWD's book BEFORE the affair I am humble enough to admit there may not have BEEN an affair.

Did I cauase it? No. WAs I doing everything I could to PREVENT It? No again.