Nope gals - hank you so much and I'm sure it seems that way but this is an issue from waaaaaaaay back. When he gets upset he nitpicks about the house. Almost religiously about the f*!%ing wall to wall carpet that he INSISTED on when we bought the house!

It's not about the carpet or the kitchen.

IT's all over my first thread.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship