peace2u so many things make sense in hindsight. It really is a shame though. The execution of the 'right' thing didn't really integrate into me until after she said she wanted a D. Even then it took a little while. So much damage is done until that point is reached.

I'm sorry to hear about the situation you are in. I'm sure it's hard for the WAS also. I understand that.

My W and I are rotating in and out of the house since the end of January and we have minimal contact. Our information exchange about the kids is done mostly through texting and emails. Face to face happens rarely as do phone calls. I'll be honest and say it's given me breathing room too.

By the time we were to start rotating in and out of the house I was actually the one pushing to get it rolling. I had more than I could take by that point.

I'm pulling for tbart. In a way this place depresses me, but I have been given so much from this place that I want to see if I can pass on what was given to me in the hopes someone will grab it earlier than I did.

Peace2u are you still with your H or did you guys separate?


MySitch
Me-47
STBXW-41
D-5
S-8
ILYBNILWY-01/08
Want a D- 01/09
Physical Sep-01/10
D filed-06/10
Got 50% custody=09/11
Ride that wave!