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The really odd thing that my W said this past Monday night while we were talking for 3 hours was the whole concept of "If you love something let it go..." She used it in the context of my having someone new in my life. Like she is letting me go. WTF???? Where does this logic come from?


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He was NOT too thrilled about my going out with my new female friend even as friends. He said whether you call it dating or going out as friends that it is just semantics. I disagree with this because I think it sends a signal to my W that I am not waitig around for her.



Given your wife's history can't you understand how she sees this is what men do, that men can't be relied upon, that they always end up leaving.


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