The job thing is tricky..it is a friend of mine that would be recommending me..so I would have to make a commitment before hand- I wouldn't want to make him look like a jerk. The new job is quite a commute for me..which would mean I would also need to get a dog walker (I currently can come home during the day to let the pups out). I am not sure if all this change would be good right now. My current job is going thru a huge reorg so layoffs have been rampant for about 1 1/2 years..morale is at an all time low. With D pending..and me wanting to buy out the house- I am a little worried about job security on top of everything else. I need to sit with this for awhile. I don't know what I want from my career right now. In the meantime..gonna get my resume beefed up.
H called me last night..still acting like good ol' H...well after the first few minutes. We discussed getting basement water issue fixed..he said he didnt want to spend a ton of money if we are going to sell. I reminded him that I was going to buy the house. He said 'we will see'. I asked him what he meant and he said that he would have to consider it depending on how I would file..if things didn't work out with us. He doesn't want me to file as adultery. I told him that I was sorry he felt that way but it is what it is and he wouldn't be able to stop me from buying the house because of the way I filed. I then told him I was done discussing this.
He then proceeded to tell me that he is fighting with his sister and mother because they told H extended family about what was going on. He wanted me to be his ally..and call his family and tell them they have no right telling anyone anything..OK..whatever. He doesn't know that I speak to his family quite often..I already knew all of this and I am not bothered..but I told him I would think about speaking with them. H is just trying to pick a fight with anyone that will bite.
On the plus side..H joined a gym- which I think may explain his decent moods lately. A friend of his invited us to join them on vacation later on this month..he copied me on his response..saying "this year isn't workable but if this is a yearly tradition..please extend the invite for next year because we would love to join them"..also made a few jokes about my skiing ability (or lack of)..just being charming H. I didn't acknowledge the email.
Going to meet a friend for happy hour tonight. She has a coworker that she has been dying to introduce me to...so why not?? He is nine years younger than me..does that make me a puma? or a cougar? ; )
