Question: what do I do? What is the best thing for me to do right now for our marriage? To give us the best chance of getting back together. I am just really confused and bewildered. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!
Originally Posted By: Jeff72
It appears as though i did forget to mention that we ARE in fact getting a divorce, although our living arrangement is going to stay the same for awhile.
Yeah, I don't think I got that impression as with the first quote above it sounded like the bomb was just dropped and you were looking to prevent the later post from being the case.
Either way, my point stands. I uderstand the array of emotions and hopelessness all this brings, I lived through it too. BUT, your first post makes it sound as if you are just "yes dearing" your way through the entire situation which is THE LAST thing to be doing. You want to be confident and strong in your appearance (even if inside, it is far from the truth) when addressing things with your W and standing your ground.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
