An update. We separated in early February. She has just filed. I have not received the papers yet; she wants to meet me at a notary instead of having me served. I have been dragging my feet. I don't even want to see the papers. I did let her know that I would meet her ... I know I have no choice but to face it.
What can I expect from here? I still want to save this marriage if it can be done ... but now that it's gone this far, I seem to be out of DB moves ...
