Allen,

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Don't mind me J3B, I am at work right now and dealing with a lot of heat today so I am not in a good mood. lol


I totally understand. 2nd day of not smoking myself, so also not in the best of moods.

I saw that Drew had posted here...normally not his territory so I checked it out. Interesting thread to say the least.

I will say that I absolutely agree with Puppy about many things, including that you have been here offering advice far long than anyone else, to that kuddos.

And you have alot of knowledge in the matter. A bit long winded...but...we all wax on at times.
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But if I did that, then it would stand to reason EVERYONE should then be doing that.


Doing something...shouldn't be dependant upon whether other people do it also, sometimes we set examples. You as an older poster would be setting an example.

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I am going to trust the judgement of the readers here to infer this in each post on their own if that's ok.


To the newbies who come here, YOU are the authority...you are their judgement. They don't want this problem they want to be told what to do.



Part of the reason why I wanted to talk with Puppy, is recent discovery of his part with the affair, and also similar to your past.

You actually did not confront right away, that is what I took away from your recap. You actaully DBed awhile, but confronted later once you knew for sure?


Curious and since it is easy to read emotion into texts and post, please...read nothing argumentative or confrontational in this.



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