Just wanted to say again how much I appreciate all of you that help those that come here for support during what can be one of the most difficult periods anyone can go thru.
Best,
Sunny
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I'm done with the debate. I'm here to help Newbies, and Newcomers was pretty much where I had settled anyway, and that's where I shall return. The sad thing is, these people who are shouting down Allen, are NEVER AROUND TO HELP THESE FOLKS. Go back and look at his activity over the past month: he's provided 90% of the help to people in the Infidelity forum!!! And not just short, mirthful, snarky comments like I do -- long, drawn-out stuff where he really takes the time and puts in the effort. Yeah, I think his style is a little abrupt, and he comes across sometimes as a little thin-skinned and beats a dead horse to death, but he's HELPING people, when, frankly, no one else -- including the long-since-gone moderators -- was doing it on Infidelity! As DQ had to be to SSM forum, Allen has had to carry this thing by himself. And for that, he gets ATTACKED.
It's sickening, and frankly, you guys should all be ashamed of yourselves.
...but he's HELPING people, when, frankly, no one else -- including the long-since-gone moderators -- was doing it on Infidelity! As DQ had to be to SSM forum, Allen has had to carry this thing by himself. And for that, he gets ATTACKED.
It's sickening, and frankly, you guys should all be ashamed of yourselves.
Puppy
It's always the one who sticks out their neck to help others who is at the risk of getting it loped off. Those who stand out in a crowd or revered are at the most risk of being hated by others. Of course, IMO.
There is always going to be some one grumbling...*smile*
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...but he's HELPING people, when, frankly, no one else -- including the long-since-gone moderators -- was doing it on Infidelity! As DQ had to be to SSM forum, Allen has had to carry this thing by himself. And for that, he gets ATTACKED.
It's sickening, and frankly, you guys should all be ashamed of yourselves.
Puppy
It's always the one who sticks out their neck to help others who is at the risk of getting it loped off. Those who stand out in a crowd or revered are at the most risk of being hated by others. Of course, IMO.
There is always going to be some one grumbling...*smile*
I am fine with it June. No skin off my nose.. quite frankly I am glad the attacks are over. I can give my fingers a rest and read up on some situations here to see if I can lend a helping hand... this thread I don't think is helping anyone over much.
