Pearl, Aver, good thoughts! Pearl I bet you look fabulous in those bad**s frames! I've been getting some compliments since I've stopped wearing my glasses so that's helping my self-imge too! I hear that I should work it as long as I'm there, but I really think H couldn't care less. I know that however will NOT be my concern! I'll do it for me smile

The fact is I've been slowly planning my move for some time, I think the passing of the 1 yr. mark was making me feel more like moving sooner rather than later even before H told me of his moving plans. Kind of a feeling that I'm stagnating there, I'm ready to go.

Guess I'm overthinking in my head this moving thing, b/c I don't want him to think HE's the reason I'm going. I was on my way out, I just didn't set myself a deadline before this. Does it even matter. No!

OK ladies, question for you: Do I need to reply to H's email of Monday informing me of his impending move? I have not, but don't want to come off as rude. What do I say, "OK, great!", "Howdy neighbor" crazy I am planning to move in the next mo., guess I should just tell him that?

Once again, thank you for your input my strong independent assertive and utterly fabulous friends!

Last edited by LookingFrAnswers; 03/19/10 06:38 PM.