I agree exactly, Lola. It will be 2 years in April from when my WAW dropped the bomb on me and said she wanted a divorce. No filing yet by either one of us - just a lot of months in limboland. Everytime I've had enough and inch towards the door she feeds me just enough to suck me back in.
Everyone has their own timetable - definitely one shoe does not fit when it comes to filing for D.
