VH, you're right but even though we all know the flaws and issues of our ex's somehow it is just so hard to get past the fact that this person who was so central in your life just didn't want you anymore, whether it's for hookers, another woman or Daffy Duck, it's a long road back to feeling healthy and attractive again. I dunno why but it is. My W said to me about her and OP "We know we're co-dependent, so what?" Just for the record, I did not accuse them of being such (if I recall I was a little more vague, calling them a "pair of sick bitches") that was her idea. So, she basically said "OP and I know that we're in an unhealthy R and it is destroying my family but so what?" How do you argue with that kind of craziness? I gave up!
