NCB, I was thinking about your stituation. I know that you said in the past when it is your time with the kdis she likes to show up to disrupt things. If I remember correctly you e-mailed her asking her not to be there. As crazy as she is, you asking her not to come probably makes her more determined to come. My X seemed to LOVE to show up to the kids activities with the new wife, and always made sure to sit where i could see them. I never acknowledged their presence, it was irrelevant. Them being there did nothing to diminish my wanting to be there for my kids. And seeing them there together made me realize that they were perfect for each other, two seriously flawed people who had to destroy others to get what they wanted, because they were the center of the universe.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
