Let's put it this way.. what is the full timeline here?
At what day did the contact officially END to your knoweldge?
i think on or around Feb 8th (when i figured out OM was calling and texting her) but i only found out that it was physical from OM W on 3/13.
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how long have you HAD to recover?
still not sure i have recovered - not even been a week
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After a certain point she can certainly complain you are cake eating yourself, but we need to know how long you've been wrestling with all of this.
WAW appeared about mid January - was trying to DB from then until about a week ago (BOMB), so i have been mentaly and physically at this for a couple of months now.
The thing i find hard is she is trying to be open with me, but in my eyes she needs to be doing more, especially the saying sorry thing....and i have told her that. her response is that she is afraid i will go back to the way i was, and that she has seen hints of it showing through so can't let her guard down.
her doing this does upset me - which is what the old me would do, pout and crap like that....but i am trying not to do that as well. just been punched so many times lately that i need something to show me she is committed to workign with me.
kind of sounds like the chicken and the egg pardox doesn't it...lol
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
