There is no butts about it she is insane and you can rationalize with a insane person. Clingingtohope has got it right, you need to keep this email in a file, and document every case/issue that comes up with her. Fill your attorney in with the details...
It seems that all she wants to do is stir it up... this is not about her anymore, this is about the boys, and she seems to think causing more drama is going to make things better.. or is she waiting for you to give up? I wonder....
(((((hugs))))
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