H dropped off his tax papers because I decided to cave and file jointly. Then today he sends a text that he wants part of the tax refund because he has bills. WHAT!?!?!? I am saving him probably a few hundred dollars by filing together...isn't that enough. He also said he didn't want to fight tonight. He just wanted to spend time with his family. WHAT FAMILY?!?!?! We are not a family. S is his son, but that is it. Honestly we have not been husband and wife for a year so don't say you want to spend time with family especially after the text two weeks ago to OW saying he was going to my house just to play with S. Be honest!
Then I send a text back to say I don't want to fight either. I just want the agreement signed and that is it. He says he won't sign anything and will just give a verbal agreement. I told him that is a no go because he gave me a verbal agreement last May to see S every Tuesday, Friday and Sunday. That lasted a month and now is whenever he feels like it. Not going to happen. I want something consistent and on paper so that I can plan my life without him popping up whenever he feels like it. Then if I have plans, he says I am keeping S from him. NOT GOING THERE!
I am having a really hard time keeping it together at school. I burst into tears this morning during my prep time and am about to now. This is not going to go well. I knew he wouldn't want to sign anything, but it is time. He isn't planning on paying child support this month so I am screwed again and I can't live this way any more.
AAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lucky-I will post my agreement later. I think it is written well so I will just need to edit names out, but then I will post it.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
