Will I ever be forgiven???

[dday101798]

dday,

What do you mean? Please explain the long way to go.

There are many factors, and I don't remember them all to a tee, but I am firm believer in a formula I once saw kind of goes something like this:

Once the WAS fully broadcasts their distane and no longer have the will to remain 'numb' in a dead marriage, the limbo period begins, and it is usually for the number of months determined by the length of the M, so in your case, 16 months.