8 weeks until D Day!!

[flowmom]

Lea, I think that my H wants joint custody too, so that he has of time with the kids and so that he doesn't have to pay child support. I find it unfortunate that custody and child support are so tied together, because it provides an incentive for parents to take more of a parenting role than they can necessarily handle (in my H's case he is already overworking, trying to reinvent himself, and likely involved in OW).

I guess your L needs to inquire about exactly what your H means...